words...
the quest will not stop...the far i go, the more i will know...if i hurt someone feeling, it never cross in my mind to behave in that way...if i leave something behind, take it and do not returned it back to me...time is what i have and that is the only thing i could gamble for...if i fail to win the game, let it be...if i win, come and see me to get your share back...what will happen to a gambler who gamble his own life...no one knows even the gambler...this is what i learned from a friend:words that come from the heart will go to the heart,
words that come from the mouth will only enter the ears and disappear...
the question of "Are you ready for it?" or "Are you sure you want to do it?" is what i consider as a question of selfisness...who are we to question someone decision when we are not in their shoes...we always think that we are too good for others to learn from when, we could not even know what will happen to us the next day...even if we have experienced it, it does not give us the right or the power or the permission to decide for others...some of us get confuse between giving out an advice and help others making their decision (which to me is a wrong thing to do)...as someone who are not in the person shoes, the best thing that we could do is to listen and to give appropriate advice (if they ask for it) and not to-become the decision-maker...sad and sad and sad...but thats what we see in real life...im not sure if its to ideally but why cant we respect someone decision and be there when they in trouble after not listening to our advice earlier...selfishness is bad but if we are truly sincere, we will never question someone decision even if we know it will turn up bad for us and not for them......
p/s:life is what we get, the end result will vary from one person to another person...never envy for what i have and never regret for what you get...what we have now is temporary...work the best out of it...share it while you can...keep it to yourself if its bad for others...
posted by fat_elephant @ 12:28 PM
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